We are God’s Holy Family
Last Thursday, December 18, was UN International Migrants Day, and we as a community walked through the streets of our neighborhood, accompanying Mary and Joseph as they sought safety and protection and lodging. This year the parts of Mary and Joseph were played by Billy and Eva, two migrants from Venezuela, who stayed with us when we had a shelter. They carried their new baby, and had their other four children walking with them. This year they did not wear the costume we usually put on Mary and Joseph. Rather, they wore their regular clothes. I wish I could say this was intentional! I forgot to borrow the costumes! But I actually think it was better. Because it reminded me and us that Mary and Joseph show up today in the regular street clothes of our migrant brothers and sisters.
All this to say, in these days of Christmas and the Feast of Holy Family we can miss something essential if we do not see that these sacred mysteries did not just happen in a small town in Israel some two thousand years ago, but they keep happening, keep repeating themselves, in us, in our lives, in our times. I marvel at how God entered this world under impossible circumstances, a baby born to a young woman who was made pregnant by the Spirit, whose father wanted to divorce her and had to be convinced to stay, who had to enter this world not among sanitized sheets but among animals, and who had to immediately flee to Egypt out of fear for his life. That the Divine entered into this chaotic world in this way, in these seemingly impossible circumstances is no accident. Because in truth, we live in impossible situations and circumstances. We have family dramas; we battle debt the fear of financial ruin; people are fearing arrest and deportation. Our own lives are tragic, and sometimes our dilemmas are seemingly impossible. God enters these really hard, messy areas of our lives. It is precisely for this reason he came.
The very fact that our own families are not “perfect” is exactly the reason God took on flesh. Do not think for a second that your family is not good enough. Your family is the perfect setting for God to be present. The Holy Family wears our clothes, because the holiness of our own families is real.